Would you, as a woman, be surprised to know you snore? Although many women do, so many are completely unaware of it, putting the health of their body, mind and, often, relationship, at risk.
These are three reasons why a woman may not know she snores:
People think more men than women snore (they do, but not by much)
I bet you think more men than women snore. Well, you’re not entirely wrong about that. It’s an assumption based on research conducted mainly on male patients. (Yes, women aren’t only ignored as potential leaders, subjects in literature and directors of movies but as research subjects, too). Studies from thirty and forty years ago backed up this belief with the male to female ratio for sleep apnoea at about 60:1. However, more modern studies on general populations suggest it is more realistically 2:1 so your bet wasn’t as safe as you thought. Women often don’t realise they snore because they just don’t think women generally do.
Women’s snoring is more often misdiagnosed and untreated
We all know women are more in touch with their feelings but in the case of snoring and sleep apnoea, this might be the reason the condition is misdiagnosed. Typical symptoms of sleep apnoea and snoring are similar in both men and women. Women who snore tend to report more of their symptoms to their doctor, particularly tiredness, lethargy, lack of libido, weight increase, headaches and depression. Men are more direct, immediately telling the doc that they have come for snoring because someone has complained. They generally tend to suffer through the other symptoms without asking for help. Men are as embarrassed by a decrease in their sex drive or feeling depressed as women are by their snoring. Mars and Venus! Women are therefore treated for symptoms rather than the underlying cause of their snoring or sleep apnoea.
Men avoid telling women they snore
A partner would often rather suffer through the night-time trumpeting emanating from the other side of the bed than risk a night on the couch or an elbow in the ribs leading to all chance of a morning slap and tickle flying out the window. That is if hubby even wakes up. Men sleep more heavily than women (who sleep longer), so he may not even know she’s serenading him in her sleep. Women are generally disturbed by a partner snoring and will take measures to get the problem resolved whether it’s turfing him to the spare room or booking a session at a sleep clinic. If a single man goes away with friends and keeps the whole campsite up, you can be sure he’s the laughing stock the next day and he’ll be in on the jokes. A woman snorer will be just as ridiculed, but it’ll be behind her back. It’s mortifying and neither feminine or sexy so it’s taboo to talk about.
So, if you are a woman who snores, what can you do about it?
Here are six steps to take:
You may need to lose a bit of weight.